Someone said to me the other day that their partner was complaining about the trust issues in their relationship and it got me thinking.
Do we inherit the issues from our parents as we grow up seeing theirs?
Or do we make our own from previous relationships?
I guess we all have some issues but do we allow them to affect our lives and the future, can we stop them? I think it is normal if you have been in a relationship where the partner has cheated that in the next one you are going to be wondering the whole time if they will cheat as well. Then you have the other version that you cannot treat them all the same, everyone is different. If someone is tight with money then they are going to be like that in any relationship as that is the way they are, unless they want to change to please the other person but should you change for someone else?
Does it get easier the longer you are in a relationship as people do say you get easier to live with the older you get?
Do you think you have got ‘nicer?’
Again I realise how simpler it is to live alone as after failed relationships your baggage gets bigger and I do not think anyone could come out good enough!